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The Key Decision Maker: Why You Need To Be Involved From The Beginning | Bar Queens

Updated: Dec 5, 2022

"Control your own destiny, or someone else will." – Jack Welch

Dearest Wedding Enthusiast,

Welcome back. When it comes to wedding planning, there is one key decision maker that needs to be involved from the beginning: you! That's right, ladies and gentlemen, this is your big day, and you should have a say in every detail, from the color of the tablecloths to the signature cocktails being served. But unfortunately, not everyone feels that way. We often see couples getting wrapped up in the stresses of wedding planning and forgetting what this day is all about: celebrating their love for each other.

Don't get us wrong; we understand that weddings are a lot of work and can sometimes be overwhelming. But at the end of the day, this is your wedding, and you should enjoy every minute. After all, it's not every day that you get to marry the love of your life! So if you're feeling lost in the shuffle or like your opinion doesn't matter, remember this: you are the key decision maker, and your involvement is essential to creating a wedding that is truly unique to you as a couple.

Why Your Involvement Matters

As the key decision maker, your involvement allows you to infuse your style and taste into every aspect of the wedding, from invitations to reception decorations. This makes the wedding a true reflection of who you are as a couple, which your guests will appreciate. They may even find themselves inspired by your unique vision!

Your involvement also allows you to make informed decisions every step of the way. Wedding planning can get overwhelming quickly, but if you're involved in making decisions, you'll be less likely to stray away from the yellow brick road. Not to mention, being involved allows you to keep tabs on all the details so that nothing gets forgotten or overlooked. After all, there's nothing worse than realizing last minute that you forgot to book wedding bar services during the cocktail and reception!

So if you're feeling overwhelmed or like your opinion doesn't matter, remember this: as the critical decision maker in this process, your involvement is essential to creating a truly unique and memorable wedding. By taking an active role in big and small decisions, you can ensure that your wedding day is everything you've ever dreamed it would be.

Why Your Involvement Matters...When Looking For Wedding Bar Services

Three vendors can make or break ANY event, especially our beloved weddings:

  1. Your Caterer

  2. Your DJ

  3. Your Bartender

*cues thunder and lightning*

You cannot have one with the other. It completes the triangle for successful events. Your guests WILL remember if the food wasn't seasoned, if Soulja Boy Tell’em was played for the umpteenth time, and if the drinks weren’t drankin’. Do yourself a favor and vet, vet, vet your event team. You have one shot (no pun intended — well, maybe) to have this moment, your moment, for life, and it needs to be done right.


So there you have it! As the key decision maker in this process, your involvement is essential to creating a wedding day that reflects your unique style as a couple. From staying on top of the minute details to ensuring that all of the event needs are accounted for, being involved guarantees that your wedding will be an event to remember!

Be present. Ask questions. Don't make a hasty decision, but an informed decision. And, please, PLEASE, don't cheapen your experience by settling for less. Your decision today can impact your wedding so smoothly, like Tennessee Whiskey, or end up being a real po’ decision like drinking Ever Clear from our college days. Yikes!

The Queens Chalice wants to hear from you and help you make a smooth whiskey decision!

Signed — The W.W


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